Match by Julia was founded by Julia Bendis, who was born in the former Soviet Union and moved to United States as a teenager in 1989 with her family.  Matchmaking is literally in her blood.  She’s watched her Grandmother setting people up back in Russia her whole life, feeling that she too has a keen intuition of who belongs with whom.

The women in her family have always done three major things in their lives:  feed, help and match people! 

Julia's first match was when she was in high school and she hasn't stopped since. She's been in the business of bringing people together for over 20 years.  Matchmaking has not only been her work, but part of her daily life as well.  She has always taken the time to make a deep connection with every person she’s come in contact with, making it a priority to remember each one.  With every new client, she gets to know them on a personal level, their needs, wants and desires for their future mate.  After the initial meeting, Julia personally hand selects a potential match from her database or by meeting and recruiting new clientele.

Match by Julia is a traditional and personalized Matchmaking service that caters to regular, everyday people.  Every match is hand-picked by Julia herself, through a one-on-one process that pays great detail to your specific needs.  Julia works with both female and male clients in the Orange County, Los Angeles, Ventura County and San Diego, ages 25 and up. All the hard work is done for you by Julia and her network of local Matchmakers and professionals, so all you have to do is trust the process and enjoy meeting the right matches for you. Some of the services offered:

  • Matchmaking

  • Relationship, Dating, Intimacy and Couples Coaching

  • Online Profile set-up and maintenance

  • Professional Photography

  • Styling and Wardrobe sessions

  • Guidance before each date and feedback after

No more wasting time online looking through hundreds of profiles, and meeting the wrong people!

Give a Professional Matchmaker and Dating coach a try, what do you have to lose ...

When you're ready to begin:

  • Fill out the Sign Up form, and we will contact you with all the details

  • If you only want to be placed in the database, (and not become a paying client), we offer a *Database Membership ($200/year, see below for details)


*A Database Membership allows us to create your profile and keep you active in the Database. When a paying client is looking for someone who fits your description and profile, we will contact you to see if you're interested in meeting him/her. This membership is good for a year. There are no guarantees with the Database Membership, and we can't specify a time frame or length of time of when we will contact you. By selecting this membership, you agree to these above set rules and understand that there are no guarantees to be made by Julia Bendis, and the team at Match by Julia.