Match by Julia was founded by Julia Bendis, who was born in the former Soviet Union and moved to United States as a teenager in 1989 with her family.  Matchmaking is literally in her blood.  She’s watched her Grandmother setting people up back in Russia her whole life, feeling that she too has a keen intuition of who belongs with whom.

The women in her family have always done three major things in their lives:  feed, help and match people! 

Julia's first match was when she was in high school and she hasn't stopped since. She's been in the business of bringing people together for over 20 years.  Matchmaking has not only been her work, but part of her daily life as well.  She has always taken the time to make a deep connection with every person she’s come in contact with, making it a priority to remember each one.  With every new client, she gets to know them on a personal level, their needs, wants and desires for their future mate.  After the initial meeting, Julia personally hand selects a potential match from her database or by meeting and recruiting new clientele.

Match by Julia is a traditional and personalized Matchmaking service that caters to regular, everyday people.  Every match is hand-picked by Julia herself, through a one-on-one process that pays great detail to your specific needs.  Julia works with both female and male clients in the Orange County, Los Angeles, Ventura County and San Diego, ages 25 and up. All the hard work is done for you by Julia and her network of local Matchmakers and professionals, so all you have to do is trust the process and enjoy meeting the right matches for you. 




·      Matchmaking

·      Relationship, Dating, Intimacy and Couples Coaching

·      Online Profile set-up and maintenance

·      Professional Photography

·      Styling and Wardrobe sessions

·      Guidance before each date and feedback after




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- Julia's matchmaking worked out better than I could have ever hoped. Her introduction brought me an amazing husband and a beautiful son! I still can't believe how well she seemed to know exactly what I was looking for (even if I didn't quite know myself). I'd recommend that anyone take the chance.

Gina R., Laguna Niguel, CA


Julia is passionate and dedicated about finding love for her clients. This is the first time I have used a professional matchmaker and didn't know what to expect. While always a professional, you feel as she though she is a loyal friend who is advocating for you. She has the perfect balance of being warm and supportive and pushes you to be the best version of yourself. She is very smart, perceptive, a great listener and always there when you need her. She is fair and helps you to see situations from all perspectives. I would highly recommend Julia.

Mona E., Rancho Santa Margarita, CA


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- I used Julia's services about a year ago, it was a great experience and I'd recommend it to anyone who is really serious about finding a partner and a serious relationship. I dealt with Julia directly and never an assistant. She introduced me to a wonderful woman who I'm still with and hope to build a life with! Thank you Julia!

Mark L, Orange County, CA


What a wonderful, classy lady that knows what she is talking about. Made me feel comfortable right away and I would for sure recommend her to anybody looking to date seriously!

Marc S., Lake Forest, CA





1 Year Database Membership

A Database Membership allows us to create your profile and keep you active in the Database. When a paying client is looking for someone who fits your description and profile, we will contact you to see if you're interested in meeting him/her. This membership is good for a year. There are no guarantees with the Database Membership, and we can't specify a time frame or length of time of when we will contact you. By selecting this membership, you agree to these above set rules and understand that there are no guarantees to be made by Julia Bendis, and the team at Match by Julia.

Pay As You Go (Pay per Introduction/Match)

 A Pay As You Go Membership is only offered to those potential clients who we feel would benefit from a one or two matches only. Or in the case when we only have one or two matches available. In order for us to know if this is the right membership for you, we ask that you please fill out the Sign Up form.

3 or 6 Months Unlimited Matches

 A 3 or 6 Month membership allows us to develop a close-knit relationship with each client. This gives us time to learn more about them without rushing into each date, and find quality matches for him/her. With this membership, you will receive unlimited matches within that time period.

(Once you fill out the Sign Up form, we will contact you for a personalized membership for you)